Respect is a very basic human need.We all feel that need, and some of us struggle to get it. It is important to learn how to earn respect at the work place, at home, from your friends to your family.respect is of two types
Normative Respect And Earned Respect.
Normative respect is some thing you get because of your status, Job title and Social position etc.Earned respect is one that you get because of your character.It is the earned respect that lasts longer, matters more and ultimately shows how respectable you are. In our journey towards personality development, it is important for us to learn how to gain this second type of respect from others. We all want to gain earned respect.
The oldage says it well"Give respect and take respect".Some people have the misconception that if you show respects to others, it somehow demeans you in their eyes and you won't get their respect back.Nothing could be furthur from the truth.By treating others the way you like to be treated, you are ensuring their respect. Think about that you respect more, the one who disrespects you or the one who treats you well?? First respect your self; If you have self-esteem issues, it is hard for others to respect you. Always treat your self with respect, you project an image of respectability.It is extremely important to learn to be firm. Being aggressive or passive is something you should learn to overcome.Assertiveness is very valuable people skill.When we are assertive of our rights and values, we immediately rise up in other's estimation.All the well respected people of the world have strong values. When our conscience tells us something is against our value and principles, we must stand firm and do the right thing.
It is very hard to respect people who fly off the handle every two minutes. It is important to get grip on your emotions.I am not saying that you have to turn all robatic; you just have to have a hold over your emotions and not let them control you.Well a Key element of earning respect is to honour your commitments.Always keep your words, Be honest and diliver what you have promised.This will boast you esteem in the eyes of other.Any one who cannot depend upon will find it hard to get others to respect them.Always be the Best you can be.
When you Diliver your 100%, Others will look up to you and respect you it is important to be sincere to your job and Always strive for excellence.Even at home, it is important to try and be the best at the role you play in your family.Set your standard high and exceed them.It will work wonder for your self-respect and get others to Respect you.
Normative Respect And Earned Respect.
Normative respect is some thing you get because of your status, Job title and Social position etc.Earned respect is one that you get because of your character.It is the earned respect that lasts longer, matters more and ultimately shows how respectable you are. In our journey towards personality development, it is important for us to learn how to gain this second type of respect from others. We all want to gain earned respect.
The oldage says it well"Give respect and take respect".Some people have the misconception that if you show respects to others, it somehow demeans you in their eyes and you won't get their respect back.Nothing could be furthur from the truth.By treating others the way you like to be treated, you are ensuring their respect. Think about that you respect more, the one who disrespects you or the one who treats you well?? First respect your self; If you have self-esteem issues, it is hard for others to respect you. Always treat your self with respect, you project an image of respectability.It is extremely important to learn to be firm. Being aggressive or passive is something you should learn to overcome.Assertiveness is very valuable people skill.When we are assertive of our rights and values, we immediately rise up in other's estimation.All the well respected people of the world have strong values. When our conscience tells us something is against our value and principles, we must stand firm and do the right thing.
It is very hard to respect people who fly off the handle every two minutes. It is important to get grip on your emotions.I am not saying that you have to turn all robatic; you just have to have a hold over your emotions and not let them control you.Well a Key element of earning respect is to honour your commitments.Always keep your words, Be honest and diliver what you have promised.This will boast you esteem in the eyes of other.Any one who cannot depend upon will find it hard to get others to respect them.Always be the Best you can be.
When you Diliver your 100%, Others will look up to you and respect you it is important to be sincere to your job and Always strive for excellence.Even at home, it is important to try and be the best at the role you play in your family.Set your standard high and exceed them.It will work wonder for your self-respect and get others to Respect you.
